From Exceptional Parent issue, Vol. 39 Issue 10/11

Finding a suitable place in the community for an adult child with disabilities to live on her own is often a primary goal for both parent and child. Many parents find this goal difficult to achieve, knowing that a delay in the transition can reduce possibilities for placement. With a commitment to the goal, both parent and child can preview the child’s future living arrangements. The process starts with identifying the child’s needs and preferences. Then the parents establish a budget for the necessary supports to enable a successful transition for their child to live in a place of her own. They can make any necessary adjustments to their financial and estate plan, including the establishment of a special needs trust. This process presents opportunities for personal growth for both generations and enables both parents and child to move toward independence ... Read more of Mary's recent article in the October/November 2009 issue of Exceptional Parent, reprinted with permission via download: